Tag Archives: self help

Paralysis by Analysis

Posted on March 16, 2022 by krisoakey

“I’m a perfectionist.” You’ve heard it before and it probably had some sort of condescending tone to it, didn’t it? Like some white girl bullshit with that weird, yet stereotypical sideways head nod and the eyebrow raise paired with a … Continue reading →

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Mid-life Report

Posted on October 25, 2021 by krisoakey

Confession time: I’m 36 years old and 4 weeks at the moment of writing this. That means that roughly 341,400 hours of my life have passed. Now, let’s reflect upon that. There are some accomplishments I’m proud of. Bachelors Degree (somehow), various martial arts accomplishments, nice apartment, my best friend has been my partner for over 10 years, mindfully I feel sound… I guess I’m just genuinely happy with where I’m at considered the state I was in at the 150,000 mark (18ish). So what now? The stage is set, where do we go? Continue reading →

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Stay Stoic and Carry On

Posted on January 15, 2021 by krisoakey

I put shit off. I put putting shit off… off. I am the KING OF PROCRASTINATION… BOW TO ME PEASANTS! Not now though… later. I don’t feel like it right now. I’m busy playing on my cell phone. Some days, … Continue reading →

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One Day at a Time

Posted on December 8, 2020 by krisoakey

It’s been months since I last posted anything, but thought about it almost daily. For some reason, trying to stick to so many self-imposed rules and goals became terribly overwhelming in such “unprecedented times.” There was no governing board that … Continue reading →

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10th Year Reflections

Posted on December 27, 2019 by krisoakey

10 years of shit – good and bad shit. Just because it’s shit doesn’t mean it sways one way or the other, it’s just a fun way to generalize… shit. I’ve worked 4 jobs, 1 for 9 years. I managed … Continue reading →

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